It is September and with only 4 months left this year I figured I would post an update to where I am with my goals.
1) Take care of my body and give birth to a healthy, happy baby around July time frame. — DONE!!
2) After the baby is born I will lose 20% of my weight to aid in the ultimate goal of 145lbs. — In progress. I lost the initial baby weight and I ’settled’ at about 205. With that being said I have 40 lbs to lose by the end of the year…um, ain’t happenin’! So I will re-adjust this goal and work towards 5 – 10% which is a little more reasonable. 10 – 20 lbs in 4 months is a much healthier goal to try and hit.
3) Attend at least 1 marriage counseling session with my husband regardless of the status of our marriage. — DONE. I am cheating a little on this as we did a marriage seminar earlier this year. It wasn’t face to face counceling but it did do quite a bit to remind us about the things that matter most in our marriage…us.
4) Go on 1 Vacation that is at least 3 days long and gets me out of the area I know and grew up in. — In progress. My husband and I are taking a trip to ‘Sin City’. No not to gamble as we didn’t save much for that. One of my husband’s college buddies is getting married there. Should be a blast as I have never been to Vegas.
5) Make a point to see all my siblings at least once at their home. — BIG FAIL! I haven’t even seen one of them at their house this year, and don’t forsee any time soon where I will get to visit them.
6) Reach $100,000 in savings/investments to put me on track for $1 Million by the time I’m 36. — FAIL! This is a goal I am no longer motivated by. I like the ‘idea’ of being a millionaire…but I have not been motivated enough to do anything about this. There are too many more important things to do first…like become financially free…or stick to a budget.
7) Live within my means and continue to keep no balance on the credit cards. — HUGE SUCCESS! My husband and I have been living credit card free for almost a year and a half. We only use the money in our actual bank accounts and savings accounts to pay for everything. We still need to continue working on living within our means especially now that we have added someone else to the family.
8) Track my progress with my goals. — In progress. I have not been tracking as often as I would like but I am still keeping tabs on my goals. I started earlier with monthly goals but got side tracked from that once the baby came.
9) Complete the registration with Park University and continue to attend at least 1 class per semester not including the first 8 week session starting in Jan. (still in registration). — DONE! I have completed one class, taking another and ready to sign up for the last session of the year.
10) Complete registration for GI bill benefits to pay for my schooling. — DONE! And I have received the first benefit check…that is VERY nice.
11) Read at least one book a month for a total of 12 books. (need to increase the amount of reading I do.) — HUGE FAIL! I started off right at the begining of the year but I have rapidly declined. Reading is just not something that gets me going…which is why I want to try and increase my reading. I will have to work harder on this one.
12) Get my piano tuned every 6 months to accommodate my students. — FAIL. I have not gotten my piano tuned ONCE this year. I’ll have to fix this.
13) Get Term Life Insurance for both my husband and myself. — In progress. I started this at the begining of the year and let it fall to the back burner.
14) Make a will! After all, we will have someone to leave everything to come July! — In progress. I have the paperwork from the lawyers and now I just need to sit down with my husband and fill it out.
All in all I think I am doing fairly well. I am on track to achieve most of my goals by the end of the year.
Want a challenge? Set goals for yourself and see where it takes you.
My husband and I are really starting to like Mint.com. There are a lot of features that have come in really handy. One of the things that I didn’t realize before was that it will email you a weekly view of your account status. It will also send you the status of your budget. You can set up additional alerts that will either email or text you for things like low balance, over budget and deposits.
